While my marriage was confusing and challenging on its own, going through my own divorce eleven years ago was the hardest thing I’ve ever done. I had NO idea what I was in for; had no understanding of why things were so hard, so chaotic and terrifying.

As the dust settled (very very slowly), I felt drawn again toward helping others navigate this journey. Having spent most of the time during my divorce trying to convince attorneys and judges that I was dealing with someone who presented very well in public but seemed set on destroying me behind the scenes, I became determined to validate and support as many people as possible on their own journeys.

I started Solidarity Consulting in 2021, became certified as a high conflict divorce coach, and have been walking with more than 100 clients at this point as they go down this path. This work is so meaningful to me that I’ve decided to put medicine aside for now to do consulting.

I am also fiercely committed to educating family court professionals on the subtle signs of coercive control and duel personas.

My mission is to help balance the scales of justice so that survivors are heard, believed and empowered to make the changes they want to make for themselves and for their children.